You Are What You Do, Not What You Say You'll Do
I'm sharing this because so often I meet or hear people say, "I want to do this, or I wish I could do that, or let's do this together!" but don't follow through and I'm sick of it! Guess what? You can, you just aren't. The only thing in your way is you. If you REALLY want to do something, you'll find a way. But if you don't, you'll find a lot of obstacles to prove your point. Most people who know me, know that when I say I'm going to do something, I DO. Don't commit to shit if you're going to flake, or you don't have time, or you're not 100% all in. When I moved to California, I was 22, had $600 and no job; guess what? I fucking figured it out. You can too. STOP THE EXCUSES. When I moved to Nevada, I did it within 1 months notice, without a plan or job. These are extreme examples. Yes there is risk, yes it is scary. But, you will never know your limitations or your abilities if you are never testing them. Do you want to just be comfortable living in your little happy bubble for the rest of your life only to wake up someday wondering "what if"?
Are you the floater, floating through life or do you want to direct your course? If you say yes, Kristin I'm happy not taking risks and staying here, then great! But if you aren't happy coasting along... then stop saying you want to do things, then flake out, and stop making excuses when really you're just scared.
Start saying YES and mean it. Own your shit. Take the next step. What action are you going to take right now? Comment below.